THE SO CALLED NORMAL BEHAVIOR
'Abnormal' after hearing this word , what strikes in your mind at the first place?. Is it a positive behavior or a negative behavior? . How we relate the word abnormal? These are some general questions i have been asking to people for a week and i often get a reply "obviously a negative behavior". They are mental. To some extent it's even true but who decides what is normal and what is abnormal? THE SOCIETY. WE, the part of the society. Scientifically, there is a thin line which differentiates normal & abnormal behavior. According to me, abnormal behavior is something which is not acceptable by the people around us or i can say something we perceive as awkward . Seemingly, it's all depends on how we perceive it. There is a random conversation between NORMAL girlfriend and boyfriend which you might have witnessed somewhere .
( so it was valentine's day. The venue had decided and the boyfriend had made all the arrangements . He had been planning this for the past one month.He wanted to cherish every moment and a day to remember. so,the stage was set . Everything was going as planned . He came at her doorstep , rang the bell, she opened the door,looking gorgeous like an angel down on earth, they sat in the car, drove to a beautiful restaurant, beyond her imagination like a wildest dream)
girl : whom do you like the most? me or the chicken ? huh?
boyfriend : (in a dilemma ) both.
girl : I HATE YOU
( The girl picked up her purse and went away without paying the bill)
Is it a normal behavior? NO, i found it as an awkward behavior,something which was not at all acceptable to his boyfriend but still she is considered' NORMAL' in the eyes of ASYLUM.
If i consult to doctors ,they would say that girl is perfectly alright because no medical reports can diagnose her awkward behavior which our perspective can. Likewise, we all give rise to an abnormal behavior. A normal kid can be turned into an abnormal one if we pressurize him by saying abnormal.A kid doing something different from ordinary people ,we call him an Extraordinary' kid and that too in a positive sense. Then why can't we call a kid,who is going through a mental treatment an Extraordinary one ? Isn't he is doing something different from ordinary people?
It's just a game of perspective . It's all depends upon how we perceive it . we cannot call them as abnormal on the basis of their single awkward behavior .
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Excellent one
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